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How did people treat you after losing weight? (lemmy.world)

submitted 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) by Zeon@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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Currently down about 120lbs after 8 years of going up and down. Net loss is 200lbs, given I had some regains over the years. Now, I'm down from 300lbs to 178lbs and ever since I passed 185lbs, I've had a lot more oppurtunities with women.

It feels weird, not gonna lie, it just sorta happened out of nowhere. A lot more women smile at me, talk to me, and look at me more. The attention I started getting just feels like a glimpse really. Not massive amounts, but noticably more. I'm still 10lbs away from being done entirely, as I do still look a bit husky at 178lbs.

Though, it's not just women, but people in general have been treating me better, even strangers. I will finally reach normal weight for the first time ever in the next couple weeks (173lbs according to my BMI) and I can't be more excited to finally see it!

For those who lost weight, what was it like for you? Did people start treating you differently?

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[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I can't shave my head. I have ridges on either side of my head. My scalp looks like a wrinkled ballsack. Not only am I hideous with a shaved head, but the ridges prevent me from smoothly shaving. I'll have tufts of hair in the creases of my scalp where I can't reach with a razor.

My best bet is that I don't go completely bald and can do something with what hair I have left. Otherwise, I'm gonna be one ugly bastard in old age.

[–] Alk@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Some of the electric razors out there could help with this. I have a couple ridges in the back of my head and I just jam that thing in there and it gets it pretty well when a normal razor can't. Mine's panasonic, they make some good ones. But many brands make similar ones. Just don't get one of the ones with several circular heads, those won't get into the cracks. The ones that are basically half-tubes lined up parallel can get in there good. Something with a head that looks like this:

Besides, the real ones don't care what your head looks like. Do what feels best for you.