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- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
- Rainbow Railroad // A non-profit international humans rights organization helping at risk LGBTQ+ people relocate to safety.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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Hey, I remember your username! ๐ Did you surgeon make you stop HRT for a while before surgery? I hate that this is a thing with some surgeons.
Hi there! It feels nice to be remembered. ๐
luckily no! because I inject my estrogen, I didn't have to stop HRT. (They were only concerned with oral estrogen.)
I did start taking prog orally instead of rectally temporarily, since you can't insert anything into the rectum while recovering (I went back to rectal prog after a few weeks I think? Probably wise to just assume you can do that within a few months, and give wide latitude for healing.)
I see, that's great! I'm going to get SRS soon-ish, and the clinic requires that I stop HRT. ๐
are you going to Thailand? I think I've heard the Suporn is dogmatic about this. Honestly, stopping HRT if it's transdermal or injections is a terrible idea for so many reasons. Surgery is hard enough without suddenly being plunged into dealing with hypo-gonadism / extreme menopause symptoms.
Yepโฆ
I consider it a form of torture haha (yeah, not very haha actually)โฆ
wishing you luck, there are various strategies I could think of - I wonder if they actually test your blood estrogen levels before operating, you might just be able to get a pellet or take a large enough dose of enanthate that has a longer half-life ...
that aside, I'm sure you'll get through it - it's just another thing to manage
As far as I know, for the clinic I'm going to, there is no evidence of them testing hormone levels, but they keep saying in big red letters "you HAVE to stop x weeks before OR ELSE THE DEVIL IS GONNA POSSESS YOU!!"โฆ ๐