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the studies i've seen headlines and one paragraph blurbs of suggest that saying you're bad at things primes people to be put off, rather than soliciting grace. puts them on guard to notice any faux pas that they might've ignored or let slide if the interaction was otherwise going well.
if thats true then game theory and tell people you are great at social interactions and if they feel awkward its them that are bad
you just hacked social interaction
nice fantasy but i don't think that follows
protip: in social situations, whatever you are doing right now, dont
hope that helps
forum discussions aren't irl. i know how to codeswitch.