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It couldn't hurt. I left for similar reasons. The incident in question caused a very severe, negative mental state and I just had to stay away for a long time. I think I'm better?
I remember sharing a few ideas a long time ago but I can't possibly remember what they were. I think it was more involving admin/user trust or whatever.
Honestly the community just needs to decide to do better. Myself included. All of us. We just need to decide to be comrades. It's impossible to moderate kindness in my opinion, it has to be something the community chooses.
I know there are so many wonderful good hearted and kind people on this site. I hope the ones who like to fight and want to start shit and are always searching for the bad in each other can choose to think differently or not engage at all if they can't.
Even the "jokes" are getting grating.
I’m not 100% convinced that’s a joke, though it is a bit funny when it’s posted from an instance that’s currently 1/4 the active users of Hexbear.
Well, a mod got banned for threatening to beat a user to death with a tire iron and an admin crashed out over an emote, so there's that.