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Well thats it shows over its official. Im publicly out at this point. Finally told therapist, dressing girlmode most times leaving the house (even if its stealth girl) and have a gender pathways appt in 1 month from now (which i have confirmed now that ill WALK OUT WITH HRT😍😍😍)

It feels great! But im still scared of the rest of what comes. I wont lie, seeing the hate and outright violence against trans people right now makes me wanna go back into the closet and lock the door forever. But im trying my best to be brave.

But most of the important people to me know now. My daughter is the last one i need to talk with.

My therapists reaction "honestly a lot of stuff youve talked about makes alot more sense now" 😨 like gee thanks? I guess its good you were paying attention this whole time lol.

She also changed my gender in my chart, asked if i wanted my name changed but i told her no im not ready for that yet.

But it went well, and heres hoping the future is bright for all of us ❤️❤️

Im still scared But ill get through this Ill be strong

Hello Brooke, good bye Zakk(🤢🤮)

❤️❤️❤️

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[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

Ohios not great from what i hear. Sorry that not everyone in power is on the same page and some of them would rather live with their heads firmly implanted in their ass

Yesterday was craaazyyyy, i honestly felt fucking high.

She asked me my pronouns?! Ive never been directly asked that before it was a weird warm feeling lol

She asked me about changing gender and name like wtf my anxiety said youd be a monster about this why you be so cool??

The thing that is REALLY sticking with me is her saying alot of my stuff makes more sense now. Like she might as well have said" yeah i figured" not that its a bad thing! But like i was faking being a boy you were supposed to believe it and tell me im good at acting not tell me about the hunch you had the whole time lmao. At least shes been listening 🥰

But yeah, its day fucking 1 girls lets

Day 1 of my new life

Day 1 of not lying to myself and everyone else

Day 1 of getting to finally love myself, which i thought was fucking impossible

I dont see a world where i go back❤️