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I understand that some of the criticism comes from conservatives but the sentiment seems to extend far beyond thst. Of course, I understand it when it's forced or when someone only does it to survive against their will. But if people genuinely want to do it, why do people hate on them?

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[โ€“] eldavi@lemmy.ml 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)

i wish i had this realization when i was younger. lol

back then, i was deeply confused when i learned that people were getting off to a surreptitiously recorded hookup that featured me because i assumed no fancied me; yet there was in in my full glory laughing at the wailing coming from the man i'm pleasuring and the video had over 100k likes/upvotes.

it wouldn't have made me a millionaire; but it would have gotten me a hell of a lot closer than i will ever be. lol

and at least i got a husband out of the whole affair; i like silver linings. lol

[โ€“] sakuraba@lemmy.ml 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

damn that sounds hot no wonder it got many likes lol

you would be surprised, a friend of mine got popular with their low quality gay orgy videos and now lives on Canada and its part of a polycule

[โ€“] eldavi@lemmy.ml 1 points 21 hours ago

sounds like they did better than i did. lol