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Has anyone else read The Pervert? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 3 days ago by MissesAutumnRains@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I just finished it. I saw another of Remy Boydell's comics posted for a bit of a joke a couple weeks ago and it got me looking at their work.

Both comics are phenomenal, truly, but The Pervert shattered me. I can't stop crying and I'm doing everything I can to stop the spiral before it gets too bad.

I don't know what else to say about it. I don't wanna spoil the story or speak to how I relate to it and out my personal stuff online. It just broke me.

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[–] Shirow@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

I'm started reading, I'll have to finish it but damn... I understand somehow. Read a few panels so far. Just wow heavy.

Thanks for the suggestion.

[–] MissesAutumnRains@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Right? My god, it really nails the quiet space between big scenes and the lurking melancholy when no one is around to see the main character.

[–] Shirow@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I know that I will live some of this and it scares me. But at the same time. It's good not to go on with a blindfold. The world is not forgiving.

I had constructed a thick shell denying myself of who I wanted to be. I was what was expected of me. It was easier in a way, until it wasn't.

It makes me want to hug the narrator so bad.