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[–] 5715@feddit.org 6 points 3 days ago (2 children)
[–] PugJesus@piefed.social 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Finding people sexy is fine, but treat them as people first and foremost. Degrading and objectifying people isn't humanizing, obviously, but neither is idolizing them or projecting an idealization of a romantic partner.

[–] 5715@feddit.org 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

thanks!

even your horny posts are schematic...

[–] PugJesus@piefed.social 4 points 3 days ago

Being obsessively analytic is a blessing and a curse alike, lol

[–] wrinkle2409@lemmy.cafe 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Could you also explain what you mean by "objectification" and how is it different than "finding people sexy"

[–] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Go to any NSFW post and look at the comments. Don't say that.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Generally, the not bothering of interacting with someone as a person beyond the sexual. It's fine in certain contexts, namely one's where that's what everyone goes into the space looking for, but for contrast I typically know a few non sexual things about someone after a night of heavy flirtation and making out ar a bar

[–] CluckN@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Boobs = upvotes