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I think it’s less about changing, more about being mindful of how you affect others and what you can do about that.
Sure, if you’re incompatible, best to recognise that, but sometimes habits or attitudes that aren’t part of your identity can be avoided or tempered.
That's why it's a bad cartoon - the spikes are part of the cactus identity.