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I’m in an arranged marriage with an older widower, I’m 22 and he’s 61, and we’ve been married for 2 years. We’re in Saudi Arabia, if you’re wondering. I’m making the most of my situation: he’s progressive for a Saudi man and fully supports my academic and professional goals. Since he already has children, there’s no expectation for me to have any, so I’m free to live childfree.
Super interesting. I never saw people in your sitatuion posting about it on social media until I got to lemmy. Hoping for the best for you
My mother was much younger than my father. How are you going so far? Please, only answer if comfortable of course. No expectation.
I’m more than happy to answer any questions, but I’m not sure what you mean by “how are you going.” Could you please clarify?