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[–] wrinkle2409@lemmy.cafe 50 points 1 day ago (24 children)

I don't understand this. They're dolls, they aren't alive. Why people would care? This may be controversial, but I'd rather have a pedophile fucking a doll than raping a child

[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 11 points 1 day ago (3 children)

It's a moral panic - pure and simple. The same reason some countries want to ban cartoon/animated pictures where the fictional character looks too young. I guess the underlying assumption there is that it'll increase the number of people offending towards real children but I don't think there's any evidence to back that up.

If it was up to me, the criteria would be whether an actual person is being hurt directly or as a consequence of. That would include real violence, real pictures and possibly also GenAI stuff if it's trained on real content.

[–] ulterno@programming.dev -4 points 1 day ago

Reduction in real pictures being distributed is not a real indicator of reduction in CSA and CSE either.

A simple anecdote to show it:
How many pictures of Epstein with children are in distribution? How many for his clients?
vs the actual lives he and his gang destroyed.

The small timers are easier to catch and cull with traditional policing and internet restrictions/surveillance is going to do nothing to them in the face of what it will do to absolutely everyone else.

As far as the company in the post goes, better of letting them sell in your country, so you can easily put their customers on a watchlist, rather than be unknown until they start harming real people.

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[–] village604@adultswim.fan 45 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Exactly. Same with faux bait stuff. I personally think it's gross so I don't consume it, but if everyone is a consenting adult and it stops people from consuming real CSAM I can't really support banning it.

But the problem many people have with stuff like that is they assume the people consuming it will go on to do it to real people, which is the same argument they tried to use against violent video games.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It wouldn’t compel me to hurt people, but I definitely get more into kinks the more time I spend with them (to a point). Violence in media has never had a noticeable effect on me though.

[–] nymnympseudonym@piefed.social 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Society would probably actually benefit from a non political purely objective science-based commission to review published data, make recommendations for new studies, and come up with an evidence-based recommendation to governments about whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation.

I haven't deep dived on this so maybe it's already well known among sociologists/psych pathologists. But the key is a trusted science-based policy. We did it for violent video games and found no correlation. Not at all obvious to me if that also holds for pederasty.

Yeah I know, the trusted scientific commission is not going to happen

[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 16 points 1 day ago (3 children)

whether virtual CSAM (no actual children harmed or in AI training data) and lifelike child sex dolls result in statistically more child predation.

It could but I doubt that it would. Pedophiles don't rape children - rapists do. Being both is rare. Having been born with attraction to children doesn't mean they automatically also lack a moral compas and self-control. Most of them know it's wrong and never offend. The vast majority of people in prison for child sexual abuse aren't pedophiles but just good old rapists. Kids simply make an easy target.

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Most reformed pedophiles also get reformed before offense, so...

[–] ulterno@programming.dev 0 points 1 day ago

Kids simply make an easy target.

This is the most relevant point I have seen to the current scene, so far.

Also, boarding schools.

[–] kip@piefed.zip 0 points 1 day ago (3 children)

aren't paedophiles? yes your honour, i fucked that kid but i didn't like it

[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Pedophilia doesn't describe behaviour but attraction. If a rapist is not exlusively attracted to children then they're by definition not a pedophile. I'm well aware that in everyday language that word is used interchangeably with child molester but those terms are not synonymous.

[–] kip@piefed.zip 1 points 1 day ago

agree with all of that except the exclusive bit, i'm going to go with the wikipedia definition

a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children

which presents a problem for my point, doesn't it. if you are attracted to children, but not primarily, what are you? a semipaedo? if you only ever told one lie, it doesn't make you a liar. that is acceptable, even obvious to me. but you only fucked one kid so you're not a paedophile? i can't get my head round that

[–] frongt@lemmy.zip 2 points 22 hours ago

Yeah that's a thing. CSA can happen as part of bullying, for example, or someone forced into it by a partner or because of circumstances like drug addiction or poverty.

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In Hungary, there was a case, where a father who raped his daughter as punishment used that defense.

[–] kip@piefed.zip 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

i tried to look up the case but only get loads of results for fritzl

what age was his daughter? was he popping viagras and crying 'this is going to hurt me more than it hurts you?' i would previously have thought that being able to maintain a boner long enough to rape your own daughter (assuming prepubescent) makes you a paedophile. but having just read the 'primary or exclusive' bit of the definition i don't know what to make of it

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

It was a younger, and the rapist's name never got out here. Got quickly buried for whatever reason.

[–] ulterno@programming.dev 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't see why it matters whether the rapist is or isn't a paedophile.
He raped a child. That makes him a CSA offender.

Is there even laws specifically to deal with paedophiles rather than people who rape children?

[–] kip@piefed.zip 0 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

yes of course in this or any other specific case it's not particularly relevant. but it's something to consider against the general question of what is a paedophile

re laws, that would be thoughtcrime so i don't expect there are

[–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 points 23 hours ago

thoughtcrime

Yeah, thoughtcrime is pretty much BS and there better be no laws about it.
I mean, how many times have you had intrusive thoughts about stomping the person you are talking to, without any particular reason and how many times have you actually done that?
Then there was this guy who actually stomped on my pre-fractured toe and it is pretty easy to distinguish from a thought crime, so I see no grey area here.

[–] pHr34kY@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Generated CSAM is banned. For the same reason, something like this should follow.

[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 1 points 22 hours ago

The case for banning simulated CSAM produced with GenAI is that if the training data contains actual CSAM then it would be directly contributing to real children being hurt. Obviously generating those pictures doesn't further cause physical harm to anyone but someone has to already have been harmed in the past for that training data to exist in the first place.

This however is not true with cartoons for example nor does it apply to sex dolls either.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

A less obvious problem with AIGen CSAM is that the sheer volume of it could make it nearly impossible to track down actual cases of abused children. I am not particularly morally concerned with someone generating it — I don't think it directly harms any child and I'm not entirely convinced it harms the consumer. And if those were the only considerations, I'd say have at it (subject to further research because I don't think it is conclusive that it is harmless to the consumer, either).

But if it means law enforcement agencies have to give up prosecuting pedo rings of actual abusers because they can't tell which images among the thousands are real, well that is real harm to real victims and that is enough to ban it.

[–] ulterno@programming.dev 2 points 1 day ago

They are making these legislations to steer people's focus away from the real CSA.

Remember. CSAM is just the symptom. CSA being the actual cause.

[–] zach@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I believe the last time something like this came up, the argument was raised that it normalizes the behavior and leads to escalation, i.e. “they’re just illustrations” “it’s just a doll” to “I’m just taking photos” or “it’s just touching”, this time against actual victims

[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago

Slippery slope fallacy. We know that consumption of real CSAM might increase frustration and lead to pursuit of real crimes. However, we don't have the same level of evidence for illustrations or sex dolls. It's a massive blind side in the scientific literature. It's very hard to study.

Despite this, the number one risk factor still remains unsupervised access to minors. Regardless of whether the abuser consumes media or not.

[–] RaoulDuke85@piefed.social 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They said same sex marriage would lead to bestiality

[–] Soup@lemmy.world -3 points 1 day ago

Fake kids to real kids is very different than some crazy fucko thinking same-sex marriage would lead to fucking animals. Are you for real?

[–] Feyd@programming.dev 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Does the research support this argument though? (Spoiler: it doesn't)

[–] 5too@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

To my knowledge, there is very little research at all - the programs that would look into whether this might protect or endanger children struggle to get funded, because it's icky.

[–] frongt@lemmy.zip 3 points 22 hours ago

And anyone looking into it immediately gets labeled as defending abusers.

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[–] AnotherUsername@lemmy.ml 0 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

In theory this is non-harmful. In practice this is part of a fantasy escalation ladder that leads bad places. Your actions are led by your thoughts, and you are the thoughts you feed. In reality it's a good thing to not feed thoughts of abusing children.

I'd note that I'd be similarly uncomfortable with people buying hyper-realistic dolls to practice amateur torture on, but I'm ok with people buying silicone dolls to practice tattoo art and wound stitching on. The difference being intent, which is a line I'm equally unhappy with the government drawing. Someone slicing up a slab of silicone shaped like a baby because they have a desperate desire to hurt babies that they are actively feeding into is bad. Someone practicing stitching up silicone babies after injuries because they always wanted to be a doctor and never got the chance is healthier and fine. It's the "what are you feeding with this action?" Problem of governance.

[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 13 points 23 hours ago

This is 'videogsmes cause school shootings' logic. There are better arguments than this.

[–] Kowowow@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Hey if nothing else it gives you a decent idea of who to watch

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