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I upvote a lot of comments. I try not to downvote many - I try to only downvote shitty comments, which are not ones with which I disagree, but shitty arguments or other bad actors. I also try not to upvote comments with which I agree that are shitty.
But I admit I'm nowhere near 100% on this.
But overall, I like upvoting lots of comments. If I read it and like it, I typically upvote. If I disgree but thought it was well-written or decently-written, I tend to upvote.
It pisses me off when I write a well-thought-out comment that has information that I wish people in the thread would read but it goes against preconceived notions so it attracts downvotes. It sucks. But that's just how things are.
That I have RSD doesn't help, though. I struggle not to take replies personally, but it's difficult when that's the only way I can seem to read something. But this begins to stray from the question at hand.