Ethnic Minorities and People of Color
Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color
Why is the title different?
We like to have fun here.
What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.
What are the basic rules of the community?
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Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.
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This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.
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Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.
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No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.
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Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.
FAQ
I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?
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This place is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This includes those of mixed heritage and those who may be "white" but are of an ethnicity that is a minority in their area (i.e. Kurds, etc) If you've experienced oppression due to your identity that is not based on sexual / gender identification, you are welcome here.
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Moreover, for our American audience, we have people from around the world who are "white" but are oppressed due to being a minority in their country. They are and should be welcomed here.
What can I post?
- Anything you think is relevant to the mission of this community. Things will evolve over time.
- Topics and things relevant to EM and POC.
Suggested Posts
- [People of Spice]: Food recipes so others can taste your culture
- [Theory]: Vid/podcasts/websites discussing issues relevant to identity, anti-imperialism, etc
- [News]: Vids/podcasts/websites that talk about current events relevant to EM and POC
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Normative take on interracial relationships + my rant
This is a YouTube comment I copied verbatim from a YouTube video by a more "woke" Black woman talking about interracial relationships. This comment got 60+ likes and no pushback, really.
Listen, I am not going out here and telling other people, "Only date your own race." I got better use of my energy, but what is disturbing is this being conflated with a personal refusal to date out. Saying I "[sound] racist" and "[sound] wrong" just for acknowledging that race matters, and that includes in the context of the relationship with the person I'd be the most intimate and personal with for the rest of my life, is woefully misguided and undialectical.
This should be very obvious, but for some reason, it isn't.
Something that disturbs the shit out of me is people who want to acknowledge that the personal is political for EVERYTHING but romance.
Some of the same "woke" people who want to talk about how race affects experiences in employment, housing, healthcare, education, the media, social life/friendships, hobbies, etc. all of a sudden feel inclined to throw that level of clarity out the window the moment the subject matter is romance. At that point, then they want to just individualize something that they should know exists within a larger system. At that point, it's just about "individual character" and "personal preference."
By the way, personal "preference" does not exist in a vacuum. When a Black man says, "I prefer white women because they're calm, feminine, and have good hair!", that is not some innocuous "preference." That is white supremacy being internalized.
Race is real. It's real via reification of a system predicated on pseudoscience, yes, but it is still real. That does not change just because a Black person and a white person fall for each other.
I truly believe that many people in interracial relationships are not properly equipped for all the extra labor it will entail, and me? I will pass on taking on that additional labor.