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How do I calm down a patient in a hospital setting? (linux.community)

submitted 1 day ago by vestmoria@linux.community to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I was thinking phrasing the question explicitly for nurses, doctors, emergency services and the like but anyone could offer solid advice.

I've realized I don't know how to react if people start crying on me for something as innocuous as asking how they're doing or how their operation went. Others are terrified of their operation and start shaking like a leaf.

The most I can offer are platitudes, a therapist, a priest, volunteers that come to talk to those who feel lonely, something to calm down if the anesthesiologist agrees and hold their hand but I simply don't know what to tell them to calm them down.

How do you do it?

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[–] postnataldrip@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I'm not an expert but have worked in these kinds of environments on and off over the years.

It's hard to offer broad advice as every encounter is different. Your workplace might offer training though to give you some tools, which will likely also teach you the things not to say (eg promising a result, stoking the fire, preaching, etc).

Calming someone down isn't always the goal either, sometimes people just need to process difficult information or grieve for the loss of a loved one. All you can do in this situation is to offer a safe place to do that, and maybe a sympathetic ear if they need to talk, and perhaps to validate their feelings. Otherwise just being present is often enough, as is knowing when to give someone space.