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I've been wondering for a while now if I might have that gene or whether Cilantro is just a herb i dislike. I can stomach dishes with cilantro in them, but it just stings through everything. No matter how little was put in, it tastes to me like somebody over-cilantro'd the dish. I've never eaten anything where I thought "Mmmh, yes, there's a subtle hint of cilantro" - it's always "Oh, there's the cilantro, and it's just too strong".

But whenever I read about this online, people say that it tastes like soap. It's been a couple of years since I was toddler enough to just put soap in my mouth. But in my mind, the taste of soap is mostly bitter, with an overwhelming tropical/fruity/citrussy flavor of whatever the producers decided to make the soap smell like. I also imagine it having a really unpleasant texture/mouthfeel. I have no urge to try eating soap, just so I can compare it with the taste of a herb. And I assume that most people with the Cilantro-gene also haven't made an actual taste-comparison. So hence my question: In what way does anything - but cilantro in particular - taste like soap?

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[–] new_world_odor@lemmy.world 12 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

I had no idea it could change over time, that's really cool. Makes me wonder what other genetic factors can change like that.

[–] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

I couldn’t eat something that had come near cilantro until I was in my 20s. But I was intentional about it. I love Mexican food, but really couldn’t eat it at restaurants because of this so I decided I was going to try an experiment.

I would make a small amount of food at home with a little bit of cilantro and as I cut it up I would inhale deeply and tell myself out loud “this smells delicious. I love this.”

Then I would eat the prepared food and do the same. I did this once a week or so for a few months and eventually the soap taste disappeared. It tastes like delightful fresh herbs now.

[–] WizardofFrobozz@lemmy.ca -3 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

See, yes. This is what adults do.

Being grown and refusing to eat something that millions of humans eat every day is, frankly, embarrassing. When I meet any otherwise neurotypical picky eater over the age of 13, all I can think of is, “Christ, grow the fuck up.”

[–] pohart@programming.dev 3 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

When I met am otherwise neurological adult who gets hung up on what others choose to do with their free will, all I can think is "grow the fuck up"

I've got a cousin who gets upset about what I choose to eat. I don't even understand where someone like that is coming from.

[–] Grimdraken@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Cater to them in a family of otherwise normal eaters, and get back to us about how understanding you are.

Having allergic reactions is one thing; being fussy is another thing entirely.

[–] WizardofFrobozz@lemmy.ca -1 points 7 hours ago

It's probably less about what you choose to eat and more about the fact that picky eaters are, in a larger sense (and without exception) some combination of childish, incurious, self-absorbed, inflexible, and boring.

[–] Crankenstein@lemmy.world 7 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

A lot. Genes have a weird ability to activate or deactivate, or simply have a different effect, based on environmental factors.

Look up "Epigenetics".

[–] new_world_odor@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Thanks for the new rabbit hole! :D

[–] rainwall@piefed.social 2 points 16 hours ago

Your taste buds also dull over time, so strong flavors get weaker.

[–] runner_g@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

many tastes change over time. certain foods are really sharp to children in unpleasant ways, but to an adult they are more mellow and nuanced.

[–] new_world_odor@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

Right, I know this from experience. I was talking about the genes thing which I have been informed is Epigenetics (thanks Crankenstein!)