For context, I talked about on a gaming community, in regards to Discord's digital ID mandate, that its current CEO was Israeli (likely a Crypto Jew from what I gathered). I correctly pointed this out, and got banned temporarily from that community for racism (despite being partially Ashkenazi myself).
The picture here is from a now-removed post, which I have saved, thankfully, asking if noticing what your own ethnic brethren are doing is classified as racist. It was removed for being "trolling", though there seems to be no proof that this is the case. I was curious as to if this was the case, which was why I asked the question. However, since I capitalize my titles, I was classed as a troll, despite no proof of that whatsoever (and, it seems the mod who removed me from that community admitted by this action that I was being genuine with my question).
The post in question: https://lemmy.today/post/47486945
See all of this would be true if we were in some academic argument, but you're not. You're not arguing for your case or facts, you're arguing against people. People who get to define their own rules for their spaces. So, in your own vernacular, if you choose to "fallate anyone’s junk after doing my own research", which we all know means "I want to be inflammatory and annoy people", then you're going to have consequences, because us people don't want to hear it.
So, how to put this to someone who thinks we're having some grand debate.
If you want to do all of that, go start your own Lemmy instance. There you can walk around and make whatever rules you want and argue with all the people who join.
The issue is, that's not what I'm saying. If anything, what I should point out is that I'm not willing to take the Jesuit route, which is why I'm neutral on a lot of things. In other words, sucking papal pee-pee is not my goal, even though you might think that way.
That's also why I never really attempted to say everyone in a particular ethnicity is bad (though you seem to imply that I do this, despite proof elsewhere showing I'm not).
Look, I'll be very real with you. If you're being honest, and I have no idea if you are or not. Whether or not you're intending to come off that way, you are coming off that way. It does not matter at all what you intended, it's how it's perceived by everyone, and right now, you are not perceived well. You do not come off as neutral.
It's mostly due to my brash wording, brutal honesty, and my black and white thinking (autism aside, that is).