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How did you choose your names? (feddit.org)

submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by jamie_veal@feddit.org to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Hello my dears :3

So rn I'm going by Jamie and there's a lot I really like about this name. Its meaning works well (she, who supplants), it's the name of my favorite skater when I was a kid, it does have a nice ring to it.

But when I chose it to play with, I didn't know where my journey would lead to. Now that I do I'm just not sure I like the ambiguity.

That being said, I wonder, how did you all pick your new names? Does it have a special meaning to you? Anything in particular that made you go like "Yes, that's it, that's me!"?

€: Thanks for sharing everyone (and keep going :3)! Definitely some inspiration in there.

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[–] quantumgenderino@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago

I read the numbers trilogy by rachel ward probably around 15 years ago and one character gives birth to a girl and names her Mia and I locked onto it for if I ever had a daughter. Eventually, my wife and I decided we didn't want kids, so my hope to use the name disappeared. When I realized I was trans, I thought maybe I didn't lock onto it for a daughter like I had thought, but for myself. First time my wife called me Mia, I turned into a goddamn puddle, so I knew it was my name. Ironically, now we want to have a baby, and Mia is suddenly off the table.