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How do I convince an illiterate family member to let me teach them how to read? (literature.cafe)

submitted 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) by Karl@literature.cafe to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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They have never been to school. They've never said anything about wanting to read. But when they have to read something, they pretend they forgot their glasses or smth like that. They're insecure about it. I feel sad for them. That said, they're pretty stubborn. What can I possibly do to convince them to try learning?

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[–] jbrains@sh.itjust.works 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Sigh.

Can you imagine a universe in which asking the questions I asked is in fact a way of gathering more information with the goal of helping, instead of indirectly criticizing OP and doubting the sincerity of their intentions?

What if I thought this might be a common reaction, then brought that into the open in the middle of my questions? Would that help?