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You should probably tell them your plans before going through with it. They know you better than anyone on Lemmy could know you, and could probably help you identify the real issue that you're trying to resolve, because I don't think that chemical castration will fix the thing you think it'll fix. Looking through some of your previous posts, I get the feeling that perhaps you may suffer from some social ineptitude, which I can almost certainly guarantee you is not going to be fixed by castrating yourself.
You say that you're aromantic, but you also say you've "never been successful in dating", implying that you're not actually aromantic and have actually been seeking companionship, and just not finding it. That's not what "aromantic" means, and I worry that you're twisting your own self-perception to fit into the definition of aromanticism. If you were aromantic, then the lack of romantic connections would not be affecting your everyday life as you say it is; the lack of successful romantic connections would be a boon to you.
I'd strongly recommend a different therapist, maybe one who specializes in this field.