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So this will be my first time getting drunk drunk, and my friend is a year older than me and has done it several times before. I could have him watch me, but there may be a chance that he'd be high/drunk too, so what are some things to watch out for and consider during my first time getting drunk if I'm able to go to his house?

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the name blackwitch makes me think it's a girl, but who knows- i'd definitely like to reiterate what you're saying there about trust- a significant number of men have absolutely no problem getting women too drunk to deny consent in the moment