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This may not be the approach you have in mind, and it kind of depends on the kid's personality, but one of the ways to de-glorify and de-romanticize something is to de-mistify it, to take it out of fantasy and make it real (to the point of being mundane).
To that end, consider Forgotten Weapons on YouTube. Ian will discuss a single gun, its design history, manufacturing, intended use, disassembly and cleaning, along with regular reminders about gun safety. Ian will even talk about the political and financing decisions that led to a particular gun being made (accounting is of course the height of glory).
If the kid finds the history, engineering and basic maintenance discussion to be boring, they might lose interest in the topic altogether. Alternatively, if they find it interesting, you might steer an unhealthy interest in violence toward something productive (history and/or mechanical engineering).
Keep in mind that forbidding access to something just adds to the mystery and romance around it and can have the effect of increasing the desire for it.
I think this is a wonderful suggestion and actually has a good chance to align with their interest. I'll make a point to watch a few with them