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Not like I have anything against lesbian porn but ffs it doesn't even make semantic sense.

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[–] 14specks@lemmy.ml 8 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

We can leave it at the same volume. Its not "all men are bad" even, no need to make things up, its embedded misogyny, even perpetuated by women at times.

The question why is "lesbian" porn, in the "straight" section?

Why would a straight woman on a porn site expect to see lesbian porn when they select to see straight porn? It's a double standard.

If men (or anyone else) wanted to watch lesbian porn, there's nothing wrong with that, it just seems out of place in the straight section, cause that's not what it is.

[–] anotherspinelessdem@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 hours ago

Interestingly enough I once read an article about how many straight women enjoyed lesbian porn because

  • A. It shows women getting head and

  • B. Female pleasure is centered, even if for the male gaze.

I think with that knowledge, anyone who's being honest with themselves can see the embedded misogyny laid bare, so to speak.

[–] bleistift2@sopuli.xyz 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (3 children)

The question why is “lesbian” porn, in the “straight” section?

That’s just a matter of catering to your audience. Some 80% of porn is consumed by men. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0747563225001785 (section 3.2). Any store will display the right-handed scissors more prominently than the left-handed scissors, just because they’re more likely to be looked for.

[–] anotherspinelessdem@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 hours ago

The study referenced only refers to pornographic videos, which is interesting, but doesn't consider a wider spectrum, such as pornographic literature, comics, games, and audiobooks. Women historically read or listen to more pornography than watch.

My earlier comment referenced why some straight women watch lesbian porn, but there's some who enjoy gay male porn as well, partially because the men are more vocal and reactive compared to men in typical straight porn, who are essentially nearly silent vessels for the male viewer to project themselves onto. Given this, it's not difficult to see why little of "straight" pornography appeals to straight women.

[–] 14specks@lemmy.ml 9 points 9 hours ago

OK and they don't have to cater in a misogynistic way, but they do, and I'm criticizing that decision.

[–] MyMindIsLikeAnOcean@piefed.world 2 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Comparing the innate misogyny of most porn to being right handed isn’t appropriate. That sort of analogy, comparing something harmful to something benign, is the core of the problem - it serves to normalize misogyny.

We don’t need to go beyond the topic to illustrate misogyny and harm. For example, a porn store or site displaying simulated violence or underage scenarios to sell it products would be more appropriate. Prioritizing those categories is similar to prioritizing misogynistic lesbian porn over ethical lesbian porn, for example.