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I have kept everything except spicy pictures of me and my ex - even the ones wjere it's only them π€
It is our memories, and it's how I feel about them. but it's hard to know whats right.
The only hesitation I have is if a future partner might feel weird that I have it. I wouldn't care if they kept memories, so I guess they shouldn't either
I'd probably feel differently if an ex were still in your life vs not. An ongoing reminder of that shared relationship could make someone a little insecure. If they are out of your life though? That's just a documentary of your life. Everyone has a past.