Transmasc

1449 readers

5 users here now

A community for all transmasculine people.

Support Hotlines

Rules

Follow the Blahaj.Zone instance rules.
No bigotry.
No harassment.
No spam.
Use NSFW tags when appropriate.

Resources

The Gender Dysphoria Bible // An in depth explanation of the types of gender dysphoria.
Sources for binders and packers // This Google Sheet lists pretty much everywhere you can buy a binder or a packer.
TransResources.info // Find trans resources in your country or state.

founded 2 years ago

MODERATORS

cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone

fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone

televisionhead@lemmy.blahaj.zone

i am NOT a "baby maker". (lemmings.world)

submitted 3 weeks ago by ClassicaMeyer@lemmings.world to c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone

5 comments fedilink hide all child comments

so i was friends with someone online for a little bit and he asked me out, so i said sure and checked in with my partners because i'm poly.

i ended up dating him but he was being very weird throughout the whole relationship, pressuring me already to send nudes and have kids with him when i said no multiple times. he also was very cool and kind when he thought i was a cis man but as soon as he found out i was ftm, started pushing the whole "let me suck on your/see your boobs" "let me see you in a dress" "let me have kids with you" and such.

does he even see me as a guy? was i a fetish to him? anyway i blocked him, just needed to rant.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[–] robocall@lemmy.world 24 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

“let me suck on your/see your boobs” “let me see you in a dress”

How disappointing. This guy doesn't seem to understand what being trans is, and how this is obviously not what you want to hear.

“let me have kids with you”

I'm guessing this is sexual fantasy and not sincere.

What a disappointing guy.

[–] protist@mander.xyz 22 points 3 weeks ago

Not only does he not understand being trans, but this generally isn't how you should speak to other humans