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Is there any hobby that isn't a sign someone is secretly transgender? (hexbear.net)
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Whenever my trans friends hear about a cis person with ANY hobby they're always like "oh yeah they're gonna be coming out any day now".

What do only trans people have hobbies?

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[–] Snort_Owl@hexbear.net 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

You seem to really buy into this idea that football is specifically collectivist which is fascinating. Have fun defending football vehemently then i guess shrug-outta-hecks

You can convince me when all the football wankers for my entire life didn’t ostracise and belittle me over a mid sport, exclude all queers and women and be the center beacon for chud hyper masculine bullshit. But you’d need to rewrite reality for that

[–] Lussy@hexbear.net 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

You seem to really buy into this idea that football is specifically collectivist which is fascinating. Have fun defending football vehemently then i guess

I don’t think it’s specifically collectivist. I just don’t agree that it’s inherently fascist or anti-minority, and by extension, neither are its fans.

You can convince me when all the football wankers for my entire life didn’t ostracise and belittle me over a mid sport, exclude all queers and women and be the center beacon for chud hyper masculine bullshit. But you’d need to rewrite reality for that

Not trying to minimize your experiences here.

I guess in the same way that you’ve never felt welcome in football, I’ve felt ostracized and belittled in Warhammer or DND spaces despite actually really being interested in the latter.