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[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Dang, the post struck a cord didn't it? Feminism has done more for me than any "men's rights activism" will ever do.

Yes i care about the topic, sue me. Ok its cool that feminism has done that for you but thats not relevant and it still sucks as a message when trying to reach men.

Speak for yourself. I have plenty of friends and family so I'm not "alone", but I cannot have a conversation with my dad about how he's really doing because "men don't speak about feelings".

Damn that sucks, well as the author says, you should just care more. Have you tried talking to him about the division of household labour? Maybe ask him to volunteer at your socialist action group? How about explaining to him that he needs feminism so he can talk about how he really feels. Yeah that is sure to get him to open up.

I'm gonna armchair pysc for a sec and diagnose that he probably doesnt trust you and doesnt want to share his feelings with you because you won't let it go and will nag him about it for the rest of his days. Its little to do with society restraining him.

[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

stop he's already dead

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"Your dad won't communicate openly because nagging" lol good one, top shelf bait

[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It is if you ignore the first half of the sentence.

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

The first half of the sentence doesn't make it any less stupid, nothing will