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Yeah imo it's a give and take. I'll gladly use preferred monikers as long as there's some patience for me to adapt.
I've never had someone get pissy at me for misgendering, I'm pretty sure that the whole "freakout over misgendering" is just a convenient way to spin lazy bigotry into victimhood.
It's especially hypocritical when Christians are dickheads about preferred pronouns because as a Christian you're supposed to treat everyone the way you'd like to be treated and that would certainly include being called by the correct name.