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So, considering this is Lemmy I'll clarify. I'm not talking about your neighbor who voted for Trump or your uncle who's always been a dick. I'm talking about coming in contact with a deep down evil scary human. I've only met one that I can think of. When I was 12 or 13 I spent a ton of time at my best friends house. He lived on a big beautiful rural property with his dad, a few brothers and always one or two random dudes. His dad was a good electrician and a biker. So, he always had friends/associates hanging around. So one day I was staying over for a long weekend and we met a new guy his dad was housing for a week or two. Dude was a real full fledged nazi. Had a swastika under his eye and tats all over most of his body. He was from California I guess. He was "working" with my buddies dad for awhile. Anyway, the main interaction I had with him was when he pulled my friend and I in for a sermon. We were going to go hunt squirrels and do rural kid shit. He stopped us outside and had us sit on the porch. Spent about 20 minutes explaining all the things youd imagine a nazi explains. Moslty about catholics, jews and blacks. My friends dad came out after awhile and told him we didn't need to hear that shit. He sent us away, but, I never forgot the look this dude had in his eyes. It was like the look of complete bordem mixed with extreme anger all the time.

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[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

You call the list of those offenses "fun"? If you saw what they typed to people, you would not consider that to be someone just "trolling". That's one hundred percent not what was going on.

They were retaliating against being called out for a bad joke. Completely and utterly unable to take calm criticism from anyone, saying we have shit for brains and eating shit and we should kill ourselves, and that he has "power" over us.

He's just deranged. I am definitely going to keep reporting people that say to other people: "You should kill yourself and record it and send it to me." I absolutely will do that. Doesn't even matter that it was said to someone other than me.

You're being weird for downplaying that offense as a "noise complaint", let alone a "minor" one(!). That behavior has no business online. People were banned for that even on Reddit. Nah, man.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world -1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Sounds like he really bothered you and got under your skin. You let him win lmao. I asked if you've ever met someone truly evil. My example was a nazi Aryan brotherhood dude with multiple violent felonies. He tried converting two pre teens to his way of thinking. Your example of a truly evil person was someone shit posting on communist reddit, you're the weird one.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

You let him win lmao.

🫩 Really, dude? Why is it a bad thing that someone got under my skin? Like I explained, I found him to be a bad person. If he didn't get under my skin, I wouldn't have reacted. You're acting like I shouldn't have reacted. I'm allowed to react.

My example was [yadda yadda, something ]

Okay? Didn't know there was a competition, ffs. Never mind then, I won't reply to any more of your shit just in case I don't measure up to your standards. Should I tell you to kill yourself for giggles as well? Wouldn't that be "fun"?

... 🤦‍♂️

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world -1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I'm convinced you're one of the following, a 10-14 year old person, an AI or the most fragile adult I've read write something. No, its not a competition but I did have that whole bit in the beginning about your neighbor/uncle, to kind of set the expectation for contribution.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

Then quit acting like it. Something didn't meet your expectation on your post? Move on.

I'm convinced you're one of the following, a 10-14 year old person, an AI or the most fragile adult I've read write something.

Well, you don't seem like a very pleasant person. Good bye.

🙂