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to be honest, her getting with someone who sounds like it IS a coping strategy. everyone i know who's ever done that did that bc they were uncomfortable with the idea of being single. so don't look at that and go "why can't i get over it that fast", because no one gets over relationships that fast, healthily
just take it slow. you'll be okay eventually. it took me a year to get over my last relationship (partially bc it was abusive), and i still have moments when i'm upset thinking about it. but eventually you'll realize you don't think about it that much, and you can be happy on your own