LGBTQ+

4182 readers

195 users here now

founded 2 years ago

MODERATORS

ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone

ada@piefed.blahaj.zone

squirrel@lemmy.blahaj.zone

‘It’s risky business emotionally’: the social shift towards open relationships (www.theguardian.com)

submitted 1 week ago by return2ozma@lemmy.world to c/lgbtq_plus@lemmy.blahaj.zone

8 comments fedilink hide all child comments

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[–] JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I'm poly and honestly don't understand how other queer people of anyone have a hard time wrapping their head around sexuality not being a choice. Mono/poly is just another axis on sexuality just like gay/straight

[–] KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Who said anything about wrapping my head around it?

I have plenty of poly friends, got some RA friends, I have no issue with them or the way their relationships work.

I literally said that MY mental health can't cope with it and it's difficult being in the dating pool when most people are poly.

I'm not sure where you're extrapolating your assertion from.

[–] JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Welp, you certainly didn't wrap your head around that I was disparaging poly people trying to get mono people into things like ENM 🙃 am I on Tumblr?

[–] KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago

Lol whoops. I didn't understand the context, my bad.