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My way of dealing with guys like that is just keep walking. You can be friendly with them, and they might yap at you all the way to your front door. But then you hit em with the "sorry buddy, I gotta get back to making dinner" or whatever excuse and in ya go. If he didn't suck I'd even say invite him in and let him keep yapping because sometimes people need somebody to yap at. But with racists and other douchebags, being pure "Can't talk now sorry" mode and staying firm about it is pretty good.
Disregard if he's unstable/violent. I'm just imagining old lonely divorced dad energy, not all the other varieties of reactionary drunks you might encounter like pokemon on a suburban street