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No one is asking devs to remove hard mode. They are asking them to include an easy mode for people who can't deal with hard mode. People with physical or mental barriers, people who don't have time, or really any reason.
This is no different than inclusivity.
YOU might not remember anything that wasn't challenging but that doesn't mean it's like that for others. I remember everything from Skyrim. I love Skyrim. I had fun with it so I remember it.
I don't remember much from Elden ring cus I never made it. I struggled at it and couldn't her anywhere.
I can back years later and cheated on a bit more health and more health potions. It was challenging still but I could at least experience the rest of the game.
Gate keeping sucks. Let everyone in.
Elden ring opened the gate so wide that we got newcomers trashing on some gameplay features which have been a staples of those games since from software started making them. At some point gatekeeping ensure that you don't alienate the players who played all your games and played a big part on your success. Cause the wider you want to open the gate and the more you have to move away from your vision. Imo not all games are meant for everyone and that's fine.
See, here's the thing about Elden Ring (especially compared to older FromSoft games imo), you can do this right in the game. A boss kicking your ass? Walk away, go somewhere else and come back when you've leveled up more, maybe gotten some extra flasks for healing or upgraded your armor and weapons. Does Elden Ring do it well enough? That's up for debate and I have some complaints in that department myself (the final boss of the DLC before the nerf is the only time that I've ever put down the controller and decided that beating a FromSoft boss simply wasn't worth the effort - especially after looking at the wiki and seeing one attack that needs a frame perfect dodge to avoid being hit and another where they straight up said "we don't know how you're supposed to dodge this attack"), but it is built right into the game.
But after at a certain point, accessibility comes at compromising design integrity. Every piece of media doesn't have to cater to everyone. I don't see people complaining about Andy Warhol gatekeeping because colorblind people can't see all his paintings. Or that Ozzy Osbourne didn't make enough country music songs. But with games, it's a different story. People complain constantly about games not catering to everybody. Bennett Foddy made an entire game to talk about this. It's called Getting Over It, and it's considered one of the hardest games of all time. If you've never seen it, I highly suggest reading his monologue at least, as I think it's very relevant to any conversation about game difficulty, especially Souls games which are the most frequent subject of this discussion.
One of the things people love about Souls games is the challenge of it - not difficulty, as difficulty for the sake of difficulty is bad design (see my complaints above), but the challenge of learning how a boss moves like you'd learn the rhythm to a dance or a song. You'll get pushback because Souls games cater to a specific audience who crave that kind of struggle. The story, music, and world of FromSoft games are great, but these gamers feel that without the obstacles to overcome, the games would be missing a core component of what makes them great, and that by removing it you would cheapen the experience for yourself. Like wanting to play a city builder but you don't want to have to place any roads. At that point, why not just watch a playthrough on YouTube?
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"If you try to please audiences, uncritically accepting their tastes, it can only mean that you have no respect for them" --Andrei Tarkovsky
I really don't think that's a productive use of "gatekeeping".
Do you apply this to other mediums? There are books and movies that are difficult to follow, but no one demands that authors and publishers release a simpler edition. Video games seem to be an exception.
Accessibility like "let me remap the controls" or "give me subtitles" is a whole different beast from "let me be invulnerable". Treating those as the same is strange to me.
I'm not particularly against difficulty options. I didn't have the patience to finish Nine Sols without turning the difficulty down. I wouldnt have felt "gate kept" if I just had to put the game down without finishing it.
How is it not gatekeeping?
You're saying some people shouldn't get to play a game where difficulty options are an easy solution.
A book or a movie isn't an equivalent comparison. Not too mention there ARE simplified versions of popular books or abridged versions and movie guides and so on anyway.
Almost all the time this is brought up it's for single player games. Why do you care if I need a bit more health to get through it? How does that take anyone away from you? I assure you nothing will be lost by allowing people to play it with double the health, or without a arbitrary grinding mechanic that inflates the games length, or whatever really.
No one is asking for the subject matter to be dumbed down, or for the story to be shallow or transparent.
Why should someone not get to play through a game because they insisted their hand and can't dodge anymore?
They can play it (assuming they have the money to buy the software and hardware, but that's a whole other accessibility problem). There's no guarantee they'll be able to 100% it. I don't think it's axiomatic that everyone should be able to 100% every game.
You're right that it doesn't really matter in single player games. I did once have an argument on this topic where the other person said they should be able to change the rules in multiplayer to suit their desires. They wanted more forgiving dodge windows, just for them, unilaterally. That can fuck off.
Why not?
There are let's plays and wikis for games.
In some cases, they are. It's cliché now, but part of the story of dark souls is often cited repeatedly struggling against an uncaring, dying, world until you persevere. If you rip that out and make all the creatures docile, I don't know if I would call it "dumbed down" but it would certainly be a substantial change. Sometimes the medium is the message. But, often, you are correct that it is not really the case.
No one's arguing against accessibility for controls. I'm not even against well done difficulty options. (The Bethesda style "we just give the enemies more health and damage" is a poorly done difficulty slider, in my view). I just think "I cannot hear so I need subtitles" and "I just want to win on the first try" don't belong together.
Though, introspecting a little, I think what's going on is maybe ableism or something like it. I don't actually believe some of the people who say "this game is too hard. I want an easy mode" are disabled. I read them as just half-assing it. Like someone who wants to play pro soccer but doesn't want to actually get in shape so run, so they want a smaller field. And, as you say, it doesn't really matter what someone does in a single player game on their own time, but for some reason it irritates me when someone's like "I'm just as disabled as that blind guy" when they're perfectly capable, they just haven't practiced. Something about "I've spent an hour on this task and I haven't mastered it, I'm disabled" sits wrong with me.
One of your problems is thinking people wanna play "pro football" when they just wanna play 'football with the boys' and you are basically saying "you can't play here" when they show up to the field.