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Whats a big problem you are facing? (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) by sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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How can you actively prevent it from getting worse—like starting now/today?

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[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Set goals and meet them. If you need more time or money, then start working towards that and achieve it. Invest in yourself.

Stop making excuses and being miserable. Because all you've done to me is whine for three paragraphs about how helpless you are. Time to grow up buttercup, the only person who is ever going to 'rescue' you is yourself.