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leftoids have diluted the term "fascism" to the point where it means almost nothing. [CW: Transphobia, racism] (hexbear.net)

submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Keld@hexbear.net to c/slop@hexbear.net

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

i swear being trans and having kinks set me back so long because it took so long to decouple those things.

Ugh saaameeee it took so long. I had a lot of vaguely 2nd wave feminists around me growing up and while it was probably good for me in some ways, it absolutely crushed me in a lot of others and was overall a negative factor in my life (Im still trying to deprogram the whole "me being attracted to someone is inherently predatory" bullshit i internalized from that, it runs deep). The more ive embraced my kinks the happier ive been, and its given me a lot of joy and healing to be able to engage in them, which has in turn helped me to decouple things.

my first partners were into femboys and i was just hungry for any validation even if it came from an incorrect place

cuddle im sorry you had to go thru that shit. The hunger for validation is so real

I just shoved everything really really deep down. Im very good at compartmentalizing, and it was easier to play the role of "man" and get some semblance of love/affection from that than deconstruct and process how i really felt. The person i was pretransition was explicitly crafted to protect me, and wasnt really a person at all.

fuck Ray Blanchard with a rusty fork

Yes. 100% yes. When i first tried to come out someone i deeply trusted suggested i identify as AGP... Shes since gotten a much better understanding of things and is a bit of an ally, but im still really upset and hurt by her words and actions. That fucker has poisoned so much with his unsubstantiated bullshit "theory".