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Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

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Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

Why is the title different?

We like to have fun here.

What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.

What are the basic rules of the community?

  1. Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.

  2. This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.

  3. Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.

  4. No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.

  5. Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.

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I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

meow-hug living in the imperial core we're still victims to colonial forces. The second guessing part is so relatable and while I do get the personal responsibility part of therapy it can ignore the material reality for a lot of people. Couple years ago I did feel hopeless and nearly drank myself to death, I got completely sober with the love and support by those around me. I think what keeps me going is wanting to look out for everyone around me, I don't think I could let my lovee ones face the coming violence alone.

We live in a sick society so I'm glad to label myself a failure. I've been trying to come up with my own definition of success and while at first it was easy rejecting the patriarchal and capitalist ideals having to define my own was difficult but and foremost was to live. Taking care of yourself is a form of rebellion. When your feeling better try reading some Fanon it's helped me reframe some things

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

meow-hug

Sorry comrade, I'm glad you made it through and stopped drinking.

I don't think I judge myself on the sick standards society defines, but I'm sad that all the people I love the most have been brutalized and so severely severely damaged by fascism that they're broken. Can't have healthy relationships with each other. Often antagonistic because they won't face the real problem, fascism, and take it out on me instead. That's where the sense of futility comes from

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I see sadly the whole victims of fascism tend to lash out at each other, it may not mean much but being able to say fuck this country is a good step. I know my sibling has had the brunt of misdirected anger faced towards them in my family so I do my best to be gentle with them. I hope some gentle words come your way and kinder attitudes, you don't deserve to be a punching bag.

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 3 points 2 months ago

Thank you <3. I wish you good luck and kindness as well.