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[–] barnaclebutt@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm on-board with everything else, but is not farting all the time just basic manners?

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

There's a balance. I have known plenty of women who felt it was not permissible to fart around people/in public ever. One would not even fart around her husband of 10+ years. Another would only fart when they were at home, in the bathroom. Another felt it was inappropriate to ever fart, even when she was pooping (as a result of this, she once was so constipated that she had to go to the hospital).

Whilst these are particularly extreme examples, they're just instances of a general trend where women farting is stigmatised more than men farting. I interpret the image in the OP to be resisting that excessive pressure and unrealistic standard rather than advocating for disregarding basic courtesy and farting with impunity

[–] Vika@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 4 days ago

Whilst these are particularly extreme examples, they’re just instances of a general trend where women farting is stigmatised more than men farting. I interpret the image in the OP to be resisting that excessive pressure and unrealistic standard rather than advocating for disregarding basic courtesy and farting with impunity

I know older gen X women, like my mom, who are like this

[–] TheMadBeagle@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It is, but the post still stands, you don't need to hold in that fart to be a women, people can still find it rude though.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 week ago

"TIL i do ~~women~~ people things. lol"

The point of "you don't have to hold your farts in to be a woman" isn't to suggest that only women fart, but that farting is a thing that people do, and that given that women are a subset of people, women fart (and that farting doesn't make someone less of a woman)