Ask Lemmy

The thing is, on places like AITA, those made up posts may seem benign and just entertaining, but I encourage you to look with a more critical eye. Well over half the time, there is usually someone in the story specifically acting unreasonable or idiotic or "bad" in some way or form, and they tend to belong to some group or another that the poster is relying on biases of to try and make more convincing. It's not usually minorities exactly, but things like bosses, or in-laws, or tourists, or women in general. Just some group that people often have preconceived biases against. And then people read the made up story and go "Yea, those people really ARE like that!" and even though it's completely fake, there is now mental support for those biases; and the world gets just a tiny bit more unfriendly and a tiny bit more isolating.

Another common defense I see is "the same thing happens in all forms of fiction, but I don't see you complaining about movies or books!" which completely ignores that other forms of fiction aren't trying to pass themselves off as something that actually, really happened, for real; with real people, that actually exist and act like that. And that's the difference between telling a story for entertainment, and just fucking lying.