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Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

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Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

Why is the title different?

We like to have fun here.

What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.

What are the basic rules of the community?

  1. Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.

  2. This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.

  3. Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.

  4. No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.

  5. Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.

FAQ

I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?

What can I post?

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

CW: Genderqueer AwkwardnessI was just on a walk, and this person, a much older Black woman, stopped me to talk to me, asking me if I was this person she knows.

I was confused at first, but based on the name of the person she brought up, it wasn't me (just someone who might look similar), so after me being a bit perplexed and fumbling my words, I say "No, that's not me." Then she asks me, kind of spontaneously, "Are you male or female?"

I just responded with "What?" because I didn't know what to say. Due to my androgyny, this isn't necessarily an uncommon occurrence, but usually, people just assume and I roll with it. It's not as common that people directly ask "what gender" I am.

After I said "What?", she got upset, and then she started getting very apologetic. I told her that it's okay and that I accept her apology, but nothing I said was able to calm her down, really, so I just kept walking.

Yikes.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Got hit with the pokemon line, had you followed up might have gotten to choose from 3 starters.Real tho sorry you had to deal with her