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They shouldn't be able to do that!

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[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 117 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Blocking means you can't see them. It makes them non existent to you. It doesn't hide you from them. It's working as intended.

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 47 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I'd call that "muting" rather than blocking.

And it leaves vulnerable communities open to abuse, because they're unable to police their communities and kick out harassers.

[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io 26 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Moderators are still able to ban people from communities.

[–] azertyfun@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Easier job to do when you're actually getting reports.

  • Reporting = this breaks the rules please moderate
  • Blocking = Fuck them, even if they rechnicly abide by the rules I don't want them near me
  • Muting = I don't want to see what this person does but don't want to hurt them beyond that
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[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Lemmy communities and irl communities are different things that only sometimes overlap.

For example, the irl trans community could be harassed in a Lemmy gaming community. If mods aren't sympathetic, then they're torn between just accepting the harassment, or forking the gaming community. While this is what Lemmy was meant to do, practically most Lemmy communities aren't large enough to meaningful support more than one instance, so one of the instances is going to wither on the vine. And most Lemmy mods seem overworked, besides.

[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io 3 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I'm not sure what you're suggesting. If a gaming community's members are harassing a trans community, could the trans community's moderators not simply ban everyone from that gaming community from the trans community? That's a power that moderators have. You could also report the gaming community to the administrators of their instance and if the administrators thought it was a problem they could shut down that community. You could also ask your own instance's administrators to defederate from the gaming community's instance. All of those things are things that can be done with the way the Fediverse is currently set up.

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[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

If they are running their own communities yes they can. Mods can and do ban people from the communities.

[–] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 weeks ago

lemmy communities and irl communities aren't the same, they only sometimes partially overlap.

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[–] NichEherVielleicht@feddit.org 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

That's unfair. It's rather fair they don't see me, I blocked them for a reason.

[–] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 82 points 2 weeks ago (33 children)

You get to control your own experience, not their experience.

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[–] Zak@lemmy.world 33 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The only way to do that in a federated system would be to effectively make blocks public. That has its own disadvantages.

[–] NichEherVielleicht@feddit.org 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Sorry I'm a nurse, explain it to me like I'm five years old.

[–] killingspark@feddit.org 24 points 2 weeks ago

It's hard to control which Information other people get in a system where many servers share information like posts and comments. Think of it as throwing your post on a public wall. Everyone that walks by will be able to see it.

It's (relatively) easy to control what information you want to see. Or at least information from which sources you want to see, or not see.

[–] CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 weeks ago (28 children)

Since each instance is its own 'website' that shares content with each other, your block would need to be publicly available so that every other site can see it and implement it.

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[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 2 points 2 weeks ago

Go back to Reddit? This system stops witch hunts, effectively stops echo chambers from gaining traction, and helps protect against power tripping mods.

Much like someone else told you, you can control what you see. If you don't see the trolls do they really exist for you? If you don't go looking for their "ghost" you won't find it