How do you deal with being "sure of yourself"? (lemmy.world)

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When questioning your intentions as arrogant, entitled, immature vs confident, moral right, correctness. Or even questioning if the Duning Kruger effect is at play.

What process do you incorporate to back-up your self-judgement or in identifying your decisions/choices are in-fact "correct" in online discussions and/or personal life with friends/family.

How do you remove "self-doubt"?

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[-] kava@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

I don't think you should ever fully remove self doubt. It's useful so you don't end up a megalomaniac.

But generally speaking, you do the best you can. I look at the situation, weigh the variables, and make a decision based on the best information I have at the time. If I'm wrong, I'm wrong.

It's sort of like playing poker. Sometimes you have AA and you lose to someone with 72. Doesn't necessarily mean you misplayed the hand - sometimes you do your best and still lose. Just lick your bruises and keep moving forward.

Also, I think being able to admit to your mistakes when you are wrong will help a ton.

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