How do you deal with being "sure of yourself"? (lemmy.world)

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When questioning your intentions as arrogant, entitled, immature vs confident, moral right, correctness. Or even questioning if the Duning Kruger effect is at play.

What process do you incorporate to back-up your self-judgement or in identifying your decisions/choices are in-fact "correct" in online discussions and/or personal life with friends/family.

How do you remove "self-doubt"?

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[-] the_q@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

Why would you want to get rid of self doubt? Questioning ones reasons or whether they're wrong is vital.

[-] Reoru@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I get where you are coming from, that it is a useful thing to have but sometimes self-doubt or insecurities can be debilitating and lead to inaction. It's should healthy medium like most things in life.

[-] HotDogFingies@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

Because your family is toxic and conditioned you from birth to doubt everything you think and feel.

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