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I feel like I used to have a satisfactory layout for years but haven't since found a consistently comfortable arrangement. I like to have a fairly thick pillow or two under my head to accommodate my bad shoulder, a pillow between my thighs to avoid chafed skin, and a pillow for hugging - also mostly for my shoulder.

The head ones tend to get distorted really quickly and it's really difficult to find a good hugging pillow.

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[โ€“] monovergent@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Just an ordinary rectangular pillow. Contrast with European square pillows, which are way too big. It's served me well for the past 20+ years (yes, the same pillow) as a side sleeper.

[โ€“] toynbee@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

My oldest pillow is about fifteen years old and was one of my first purchases in my own home - it's the one I now use to avoid skin chafing. Back then it was for my head.

I didn't know European pillows were different, though I suppose I shouldn't be surprised.

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