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[โ€“] DisabledAceSocialist@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Well, I've been feeling more tired than usual (a side effect of my new migraine med which I decided to take after all) but I thought I'd report on my assisted suicide plans. They're not going well. There are 6 suicide clinics in Switzerland. Two don't accept foreigners. One doesn't give discounts. One isn't accepting new members. So that leaves two - dignitas and pegasos. I'm still going through the process with dignitas but i thought I'd also try pegasos as a backup. I just heard back from them and they said given my "relatively young age," they would require additional documentation from me, including a notarised letter from family members saying they support my decision and they'd have to come with me. I don't really have any family, I mean I have some cousins who live hundreds of miles away who I haven't seen in years. They don't care about me at all, they never check to see if I'm alright or need anything. You can technically get 14 years in prison in the UK for assisting someone to commit suicide, there is no way these cousins will drop everything, abandon their kids, travel hundreds of miles, spend loads of money and risk prison to help me do this. So pegasos is off the table. That only leaves dignitas but I know they are also keen on family involvement. It doesn't look like it's going to happen for me but I'll keep trying with dignitas until i get a definite no anyway.

[โ€“] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I'm sorry to hear that it's all been dead ends. Seems dumb to require family, who you basically don't even know anymore, to vouch for any kind of procedure. Especially when they may as well be strangers. Hope the new med turns out beneficial.