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[advice needed post] i asked out a friend. I don't think they understand that this is something I did with romantic and not platonic intent. How do I make that clear? (hexbear.net)

submitted 2 months ago by EstraDoll@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

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I asked out a friend of mine who I've been trying to ask out for a while now to grab coffee next week. They said yes but I don't think they got the more than platonic intentions I had, they seem kind of oblivious to it (or are just hiding it well). I can't flirt if my life depended on it, how can I convey my romantic intent without just... saying it outright?

idk if I'm giving enough context or detail here but feel free to ask if you need

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[–] UhhhDunkDunk@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago

Just want to say so much solidarity and support I have for you as a fellow human being, such a relatable moment and still always such a big one. Already lots of great advise, so i'll just piggy back on- What happened with my current partner and me(we were friends for 9-12 months at this point): one on one hang "Hey...I'm nervous to bring this up but its been on my mind recently....sometimes I think I have feelings for you that are beyond friendship. I don't want to lose our friendship or make you uncomfortable and I still thought it was important that I bring that up with you."