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what’s the most romantic gesture in your opinion? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 6 days ago by s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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honestly, im not sure. i guess just any way that shows he or she cares about me can be romantic to me. maybe spending time with me and doing things for me??

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I'm leery of most romantic gestures now because it turns out some of them are just self-serving narcissism so they feel good about themselves for performing them, but honestly trying to cheer someone up with a nice dinner and a peaceful evening is really heartfelt and says, I can't fix this for you but I can do this much and try to help you have a better day and show you I care about you.