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Let's be clear that is an assumption. I understand that there is a shit ton of fake astroturfing going on, but not every single story of detransistioning is lies.
For a more personal experience point to this:
When I was a teen, transness wasn't really talked about, so a cis male being un-masculine "had to" mean they were gay.
Cards on the table, I'm bisexual. But only for a single digit number of men. I'm effectively cishet.
But with how many times I heard that I must be gay, from bullies, from well meaning folks, from strangers... it added significant additional turmoil to my toughest times as a teen. Suicidal ideation tough times.
And now, over a decade and a half later, I'm still not a particularly masculine man in a standard ass cishet marriage with a kid. And I'm happy and comfortable in my identity.
So I have a tough time hearing this repeated narrative of "there's no downsides!"