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I've been going out a lot more recently and its made me realize how much subtext stuff I miss
example
Hanging out with a friend after work, just to get lunch. We pull up to the drive through and she asks how I want to pay, do I just want to put everything on her's. I say it doesn't matter to me. She asks again. I say well, I've only got a 20 on me so I can't really split it (like, she pays on her card and I give her cash for my food). She's like no, do you want me to pay for you. Ooh no, no I've got money for myself, sorry...Hanging out with another coworker for a few minutes, he asks when I have to leave. Not for a little bit, I've got time. Oh okay, well I was just going to run over (across the parking lot to a fast food place). Okay, cya! Then he asks if I want to walk over with him
uh yes I do, sorry I just didn't get that...
being a hater
Literally every time I leave the house or do anything something happens and I look like an idiot, I know NTs make mistakes and misunderstand but it always feels like something I really should have gotten. And its all the time :/I do this all the time too, I get how you feel