Found this in my folder rule (also you are loved AND valid) (media.kbin.social)

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[-] WheeGeetheCat@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

I'm cis but I discovered ewphoria on reddit and it was a weird experience.

Then I discovered the weird brand of misogyny that FtM people can fall into when they're trying to hard to pass as a man, that was even more of a shock. Thought FtM people would be strong-anti-misogynists but nope, everyone is capable of thinking they're special

[-] ichmagrum@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

ewphoria

... wat?

[-] PugJesus@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

If memory serves, when something shitty happens to you because of your gender, but it also affirms your gender and feels... well, affirming.

[-] oscar_falke@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago

Like when an old disgusting man makes a disgusting joke about "wife bad" and looks at you with an "am I right or what?"-look. Last time that happened (it was a work colleague) I felt weirdly validated in my manlihood and felt like I'm part of the in group (I'm a cis man, but considerably younger that the other guy, and I was new in that place of work), while at the same time wishing that guy would just disappear into thin air. Disgusting feeling.