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Spam calls works for some peope too. All kind of these frauds works for some people too.
that's why they exist.
Well, you should be infuriated on how people VOTE :)
It's a bit late for that bit of being infuriated.
Its never late for that!
I'm afraid I've moved beyond infuriated and into depressed.
Then post into #mildlydepressed :)
Depression is a natural state of deep self-reflection amidst conflict, a mirror so to speak that helps you understand who you are, and as an extension, understand what it means to be human. The way out is only when you've figured the underlying root cause of that conflict. What is anger, what triggers this anger, what are insecurities, what motivates you into action and what paralyzes you into inaction. Maybe not depression, but deep self reflection is a necessary path to self actualization. It took me many years in depression to realize the conflict is internal and eternal. That there is an animal in all of us that is that is reactionary and instinctive and is easily triggered by rage, anger, & fear and that all reason and logic hides behind this animal. That when we see the whole world turn into animal, our fears revive the animal in us. Like game theory predicts, when you become selfish, I become selfish. That explains all conflict in the world and I mean all conflict. You may gain clarity and find yourself out of conflict and depression, yet it can still be upsetting to see the current state of the world. And I will say that despite all the terrible news these days, I'm still optimistic about humans doing alright in the long run, afterall we've survived so far and our ancestors have gone through much much worse.
Much much worse than global climate change?
Just once. Also with global climate change that we weren't even causing ourselves.
It almost ended us before we started.
https://www.nhm.ac.uk/discover/news/2023/august/human-ancestors-may-have-almost-died-out-ancient-population-crash.html
Look what I found - https://lemm.ee/post/54651420
https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2025/feb/04/temperatures-at-north-pole-20c-above-average-and-beyond-ice-melting-point
https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2025/feb/04/climate-change-target-of-2c-is-dead-says-renowned-climate-scientist
I'm fully agreeing that climate change is a terrible and genuinely upsetting thing. But know that the animal in you wants to instinctively react to fear, and doesn't want you to listen to reason. Only you can control this animal. Know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum (it's from a song). Our ancestors lived in caves, lived through feudalism, through centuries of egomaniacal kings and ignorant masses, and sword fighting, and disease, and famine, you and I still made it here to exchange messages on the fediverse. I will not bet against human resilience and spirit of cooperation, which incidentally is also something you will realize is fundamentally human when you look deep in the mirror.
Our ancestors did not, generally, live in caves. We simply find the best-preserved remains in caves because caves aren't subject to things like weather and erosion. Most humans, in fact, many pre-humans, probably lived in huts. And, as I already showed you, we already almost went extinct once.
You really do not know what you are talking about here, especially because you seem to think species don't go extinct. Over 99% of the species that have ever existed are now extinct. We are not special enough to avoid that indefinitely.
Maybe humans go extinct, maybe they don't, I never made any claims about it. But that your worrying makes no difference to nature and systems bigger than your individual control. I prescribe hope instead of gloom for reasons of self preservation.
You sure implied we won't go extinct:
And sorry, telling me not to worry when I am over in the UK with my daughter to keep her safe from the queer genocide in America, but no job yet and slowly dwindling savings, and my wife is still over in the U.S. and I have no idea if I can bring her over and my daughter herself can only legally stay here for six months unless I make over £28,000 a year and I can't get her the medication she needs over here, so I can only hope that my wife can get and send it in time... you don't know shit about what I'm going through. If I didn't worry about all of that, I wouldn't have even left the U.S. to protect her.
Hugs to you. I've migrated once but that was 2 decades ago. Now I have family & teenagers who I can't up & move easily and who still look forward to a future in America. I worry too.