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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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[โ€“] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

what if they're also broken inside? ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

[โ€“] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

do u mean the therapist or urself or someone else or... idk who u mean exactly ;(

[โ€“] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

the others who you're underselling

[โ€“] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

well that would of course be very bad!!! then they'd be bad off and i'd feel sad for em. i would hope that they can get help soon, while also trying not to understate ones own position... this is hard! peeps all around the world are feeling horrible, and someone saying ooh nuu i'm feeling broken inside while sounding like a 14-yearold, idk.. i think this phrase has been killed for me, because of the many peeps i have had contact which who really were just being depressed for the joke like my brother. it always made me go grrr, i feel bad for actualy depressed peeps, they must feel so awful knowing that others make fun of their situation.

Kinda like how being autistic became a trend some time apparently? Like - what was the point of that? Is it to genuinely make fun of autistic peeps or is it just funi cuz idk - having difficulties communicating is hilarious? idunno, probably missing many things here ~

[โ€“] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

yeah I suppose a gay trans woman who's neurodivergent, disabled, unemployed, broke, who spent most of her adult life homeless, dealing with addiction and trauma is a likely candidate for somebody who jokes about being depressed because they wanna seem so cool and funny. doesn't that just sound so awesome, who wouldn't wanna lie about being like that!

in all seriousness I know you don't mean any harm by this, I was going to ignore it at first, but I decided that I wanted to say that it's better not to assume somebody is just joking when they say they are depressed. it's shitty to joke about serious mental issues and misrepresent your situation by making false claims, but it's also shitty to have suggested that your just faking it.

again, I know you didn't mean any harm by this, and your coming from an understandable place, but I just hoped you would know me a little better than this.

[โ€“] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

yeah no, you are totally right. you did the right thing to call me out on this. i just associated this specific phrase with the evil faking-peeps >:( .

i did debate on putting this comment, cuz it really does sound like i'm saying "damn all these people just fake everything for attention". which, i really tried to not come across like this, but i did.

i really should have known you better, and i do remember you talking about something similar some time ago.. i will perform more multi-perspective-analysis next time i comment.

[โ€“] erotador@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 14 hours ago

I just wanted to say thank you for your apology, I accept it, and it was very mature of you. your very smart and I appreciate all the effort you put into the things you say, your a good friend smorty.